Start Growing Your Feminine Energy

When in the presence of someone who I feel exudes feminine energy the first thing I notice is the calm. There's this calm and warm feeling that washes over me. Almost like they are existing outside of time itself somehow. The feminine energy coming from them is open and inviting without being assuming.

Some traits I've been trying to internalize stem from a feminine aura. My version of her is also prepared, and loves to be surrounded by pretty. Pretty things, pretty personalities and pretty experiences. More on mindset would include intention. Feminine energy, even though it is soft. It is intentional.

Start Setting the Mood for the Day Ahead

Get yourself on the best possible foot. Whatever the day ahold might hold, prepare. Make the environment enjoyable to be in. Maybe it's a quick clean up before heading to bed. Put whatever your priority is center stage. The more attracted your eye is to it, the more you'll feel up to the task. Give your space an aesthetic makeover, little by little if you need to! Carve out different spaces for different activities. I can't express how much I've benefited from associating my bedroom with rest and relaxation. Instead of entertainment.

better sleep : the bed now tells my body its time to start recouping.

less dreams? : this one kind of cracks me up because I have no idea how or why this happened. but, my brain has actually been quieting down enough to not dream as much? or at least not remember them

journaling heaven : being propped up on my bed while getting all my thoughts out before bed gives me so much comfort. it reinforces my bed and my room being a safe space.

Putting yourself in the best position, especially before bed, you can ease into it. Setting the mood also includes getting a head start. Any ideas, worries, and concerns about the upcoming project. Have a space aside for all of it. Organization brings calm focus. Whatever the day ahead may have, be as organized as you can. Even have a designated space for things that need to be put away.

How to Stay Excited About the Day to Come

I find that what works best is the things that make you excited about the tasks to come. A clean desk before the day always makes me feel refreshed for the day to come. Investing in high quality supplies also makes me feel like I'm on top of the game in terms of setting up for success. Omg! Please light a candle. Even if your space has plenty of light. The candle doesn't even have to have a scent if you want. Having a light candle speaks to warm energy. When a candle is lit, I feel like the ideas just materialize.

Start Making Everything Pretty

Put your personality in your space. Put it on your body. Surround yourself by what is pretty. The ambience of a space dictates what the mind connects with it. When something is inviting to you, it'll call you. With that motivation, comes a silent dedication. As often as possible, remind yourself with everything that you are worthy. Pretty things make the brain feel capable. Making things pretty also encourages you to think and be out of your comfort zone.

Dress to Impress, Even at Home

Dress up. Even if you're at home and doing the same things you usually do every day. Take the time to do you hair. Pick an outfit that's comfortable and flatters you. There must be some kind of science for dressing for success. The key to the outfit should be that it gives you comfort! Without feeling lifeless.

Figure out what colors look best on you. Which colors have you noticed matches your eyes. I've noticed when I'm intentional with my outfit, it helps frame the mind. I start to feel prepared even if I wouldn't have otherwise.

Make the Space Your in More Inviting to You

You will always want to be in a place that makes you feel beautiful by association. Anywhere you might want to spend more time, add the personal touch. Even when it's not the most aesthetic. Personalization makes a space yours. Your environment will always feed your mindset. Make it inviting to fresh ideas. An inviting space also has the bonus effect of helping you push through lack of motivation. Because, you'll soon be in the mystical state of flow.

Please Prioritize Your Intention

Keep reminding yourself of intention. An action should always follow an intention. Acting on intention makes it so that you have to slow down. When you're intentional with actions, it brings a bit of grace to everything you do. Intention applies to everything you may need to do. Big or small. To avoid feeling overwhelmed by it remind yourself often that intention requires first and foremost good faith. Most things done with good intention have a way of being positive.

Understanding the Intentions of Others

When it comes to the intention of others, leave it to fate. Because, whatever intention another person might have is completely out of your control. Always assume well intent when possible. Exercise intuition and from there you'll also see if it's something worth looking past or walking away from.

What to Do When Your Intentions Miss the Mark

Sometimes, the intention won't land. But, in those intimate moments comes feminine emotional strength. Be gentle to both parties. Apologies can be heart felt and not undermine your own feelings. Reserve emotional apologies for your inner circle. Because, there will always be those willing and ready to take advantage of your softness.

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