Authentic Bonds and Relationships

You’re going to have a million and one chances every day to share the good with those who are good to you. Maybe your circles will shift over time but it’s a beautiful thing to be able to share parts of you and experience will people you care about. The best ones you’ll keep for the rest of your life! My favorite part of my bestest, closest, friends? They came from where I least expected them to.

Building these authentic bonds are going to be a lot of fun but also challenge you out of your comfort zone! Because the way you make these bonds and relationships include getting out of your comfort zone. And that is going to feel really scary at first. But I promise you, you got this!

Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone (psst! start going places! and having fun!)

When you let go of the idea of needing to be ahead to start, getting out of your social comfort zone really starts to take shape. It really clicked with me when I realized, I needed to move. I needed to start going places and expose myself to other people’s energies and the collective. Getting used to going places I want to be is exactly what makes it easy. When you go places that are fun, there’s a chance to bond! That are there because they enjoy it too.

Sometimes the best friends you can make happen in social settings that excite you. Somewhere that you went maybe with a purpose, but mostly because you enjoy going to or doing that thing involved. Finding people with similar interests as you goes hand in hand with cultivating genuine bonds with people. Usually making those activities more fun and engaging in the long run. Because when you enjoy something alone, there’s a good chance you’ll enjoy it with some company. That being said… what’s your favorite sacred activity you love doing that you’re kinda apprehensive to do in a group? Reply and let me know! 📮

After you’ve been going somewhere for a while, the best people to be around could turn out to be the regulars. Fellow regulars clearly are enjoying the hobby and environment as much as you! It’s super easy to find something to talk about considering where you are! This has happened to me in book aisles, things just flow! Book aisles may be the best place to start an authentic bond! I may be bias 😂.